Throughout your life, you will hear a lot of useful and at times, not so useful advice.
Advices are other people´s opinions which they humbly think would apply to your life, because it served them in their´s.
People from all walks of life will hand them to you, although you never asked them in the first place.
It is up to you to decide what will you remember and what you won´t think about again.
Speaking from my experience, best piece of thought I ever heard came from my father who said that whatever was meant to happen would happen. On the other hand, the less helpful reflection came from my mother who said to me that everything will be fine with time.
These two sentences might seem similar, but from my point of view, the pure effort to achieve that blissful happening makes them differ.
It is easier just to wait for something magically to happen, instead of taking steps to actually achieve it. But life doesn’t just happen, we create out realities everyday. We decide, we have choices, we have dreams, aspirations, habits…
The other day I saw an interesting picture posted on facebook: it showed how our success looks for the outside observer mostly like we took the painless path, like everything just clicked. In reality we made many difficult decisions, we survived many hardships, we sometimes laughed, but also cried a lot.
So the next time when you see someone who lives the life you always wanted, ask yourself what did it take him to get there. Perhaps you see only shiny moments, because you want to see the end result- happiness.
Every one of us wants to make the best our his life, but our paths on defining and accomplishing that task are not the same. We have to define our own goals, ask for guidance or believe in some Higher power to help us reveal our next step.
I realised that everything would be good in time, but only if we MAKE it happen.
Soon as you start creating your own reality, yes, everything will fall to its place.
Have fun in the meantime!